1. Under 15 minutes
A quickie should be just that Ė quick! Taking longer than 15-minutes
moves you out of quickie territory and into someone
just rang the doorbell and neither of us is wearing pants territory. While
this may seem easy to some and impossible to others, it remains a matter of
both partners feeling satisfied when all is said and done. From start to
finish, 15 minutes Ė keep it snappy.
Believe it or not, this is included in your
15-minute window. Make it count! You know what your partner likes, so use those
moves to get them riled up and ready to go. Be it with your mouth, hands, a
toy, or some combination, hit your partnerís sweet spots and help them get
ready to go.
Even with foreplay, adding lubricant can make
things work more smoothly and comfortably. Adding lubricant does not mean that
you arenít aroused or that your partner isnít doing a good job. Something else
to try would be a stimulating lubricant like Durex Play Tingling or Jo
Warming. A stimulating lubricant can heighten sensation and pleasure.
Yes, of course, we still encourage condom use.
Take the four seconds to go to the bedroom and get the condom and put it on,
even if youíre using the kitchen counter! This is also a great time to try a
textured or shaped condom like Durex Extra Sensitive Ribbed, One Pleasure Plus,
or Trojan Ecstasy that all increase sensation for both partners.
Like foreplay, you know what makes your partner
tick. Whether itís missionary, cowgirl, doggy, sideways Ė you know the go-to
position to send them over the edge. Use it to your advantage to drive them
crazy. Instead of your last resort, try it first! You have at most 15 minutes,
so just go for it. Thatís not to say that changing positions is out of the
question; simply use your top picks instead of those that, while enjoyable, are
not the ones that send you into outer space.
While this should be an occurrence in any sexual
encounter, we want to make it clear that even in a quickie, everyone involved
should have their moment (or two, or three!) in the sun. As stated earlier, you know what sends your
partner over the edge. Use that! A quickie is a great use for 15 minutes of
mutual free time, especially when it results in mutual satisfaction.